Pro Dom – Professional Sir

July 29, 2016July 29, 2016

Traveling to the NT August 7-15 2016

I’m making the trip up to the big NT, Darwin specifically, for a little get away from the usual grind.

I’ll be available for bookings during this time, but will be traveling light equipment wise. If you are looking for a session and are located in Darwin please book ASAP with me as I’ll only be offering limited sessions while there.

You can either use the contact form on here or contact me via my mobile.

Lets see how kinky the big NT can be!

June 21, 2016

Unscrupulous People

It’s pretty sad when people, especially other people working in this field, feel so threatened that they have to spread false and misleading information about myself and my services. Perhaps rather than attacking me – you should look at yourself and the services you offer.

Try at least to have a little dignity and self respect.

I’m more than happy to field any questions people have, either to my phone or via email, however anonymous trolling won’t be accepted or answered (and don’t forget that when you post you leave me your IP address). I have far better things to do with my time.

December 21, 2015July 10, 2017

Saline Fun With 13

Saline injection has been something on my radar for a while now. It’s one of those unusual practices in the kink world that isn’t common and while it wasn’t a ‘must do’ kink for me it’s certainly something that planted a seed in my mind.

So when 13’s birthday came up I planned a saline injection session just for him. Under the watchful eyes of an experience saline practitioner (among other things) we took his balls for a spin. However firstly we made time to spread him eagle between my dungeon posts, give him some birthday gut punching and nipple torture.

The saline was an interesting experience and I’m almost keen to try it on myself. The saline stays in your system, fairly localized, for over 24hrs. 13 had an important appointment on the Monday so was a little worried about being stuck with elephant balls – so we put half a bag in at 500ml. Not too long after starting and with little effort his balls were an impressive size and after removing the needles and tape he enjoyed wobbling them around.

He told me later that day that he had an amazing wank.

November 6, 2015December 2, 2015

24 Hrs Notice

There seems to be some confusion about the time I need before a session – but it’s very simple. I don’t sit in my dungeon waiting for the phone to ring. I lead a very busy life actually, between my partner of eight years, working another job, two collared slaves, a boy and pup under my training and volunteering heavily in the Brisbane Kink community.

For any session I also like time to prepare before hand. I’ll find out what you have done and put together a plan in my head from that discussion. Not having sessions booked the day before means I can also plan what I might do that night, or even enjoy a meal I wouldn’t normally eat (garlic prawns perhaps) if I was having a session the next day.

So while I’m flattered that you are so excited that you want a session at 4am in the morning with 30min notice before hand, chances are I won’t even be looking at my phone until 8am the next morning.

I also respect that you might also lead a busy life and be trying to juggle things as best as possible but the 24hr notice rule isn’t just some Dom mind game – it exists for a reason.

October 26, 2015July 10, 2017

How To Approach A Pro Dom (And Booking Your First Session)

Pro Dom’s talk among each other, and one of the main gripes we have is the way people approach us. Please remember this is our passion and job. We are not 24/7 Fetish Fantasy machines that only exist to fulfill your desires – and while we do what we can to help we expect people to remember you want what we have and not the other way around.

These are written from my personal experiences as a Professional Sir who works with men, but I can tell you many of the Female Pro Dom’s on Fetlife echo my thoughts. These ladies however encounter these in far greater numbers that I ever do.

Make sure you approach a Pro Dom with the same level of respect as you would ringing to apply for a job interview. If you are emailing or texting (remember not everyone will answer text messages) then be polite and to the point. Rambling, rude and disrespectful messages are the #1 bugbear of every Pro Dom I know.
We love it if the person knows what they are looking for, however most people have no idea. Talk to the Pro Dom and try and give them an idea – HOWEVER we get numerous calls or messages from people who want you to spell out just what you are going to do to them. These people are never going to book a session and just want wank material. If the Pro Dom even gets a whiff of this expect to have your conversation cut very short.
As with above let the Pro Dom know your level of experience – we like to hear it so we can plan.
We don’t like pushy. Pushy lets us know you are not someone we want to have in our space. I recently had someone who got angry because I wasn’t answering his calls when he rang to see if he could book a session a few hours later – even though he knew I specifically ask for 24 hours notice. Our relationship ended very quickly. Please refer to point 1.
We don’t want to see photos unless we have specifically asked for them. Unsolicited photos let us know you are probably never going to use our services and are just looking for wank material. So please don’t send dick photos, photos of your ass or photos of you in lingerie unless we ask.
If we ask questions it’s because we want to know more. We get prank callers and while they are usually easy to sift through, sometimes it’s not that easy. We also get people who book a session and don’t show. The Pro Dom will want a contact phone number – and many won’t answer a blocked number to being with. If you are concerned about your privacy then let the Pro Dom know that you can’t take phone calls or won’t between certain hours, give a reason. We encounter this regularly and can happily work in with it.
If you are calling or contacting a Pro Dom I’d suggest you have some idea you are expected to pay for the service. The second biggest bugbear we face is people who want to quibble over the price or even expect it for free.
A session with a Pro Dom should be like treating yourself to a fine dinner at an expensive restaurant – not McDonalds. I can’t stress this enough – and you wouldn’t do it to your Doctor, Mechanic or Dentist. Again see point 1.

Overall we expect a level of respect and common courtesy. I know myself I don’t expect to be treated like a god, demi or otherwise. If you come in acting like an ass you will be ignored very quickly.