Unscrupulous People

It’s pretty sad when people, especially other people working in this field, feel so threatened that they have to spread false and misleading information about myself and my services. Perhaps rather than attacking me – you should look at yourself and the services you offer.

Try at least to have a little dignity and self respect.

I’m more than happy to field any questions people have, either to my phone or via email, however anonymous trolling won’t be accepted or answered (and don’t forget that when you post you leave me your IP address). I have far better things to do with my time.

A Wonderful Message

I received this wonderful message in my slaves journal. I must admit that it made me a little damp around the eyes. It has been slightly edited to keep his identity anon.

Good morning my Master,

i hope that this entry finds You well and all ready for the silly season. As i have said before i dislike this time of Year, cannot remember ever having a good one, it is a season of stress nothing else.

Anyway enough of the negativity, i need to count my blessings, even though 2015 has been a difficult year, i have managed to grow and build a friendship with You. i have also come to the realisation that You have made me a complete man, what was missing was my inability to accept that i needed a man to be my Master, one who has complete control over my thoughts and actions, i thank You every day for being that man, my Master, my Owner and my Friend. Completing the last task that You set me made me realise that i had found the reason i am who i am, i am Your slave and at last i am fulfilling my innate need to serve and please the man who is my Master, my Owner, thank You for giving me this opportunity and also thank You for giving me Your gift of dominance, i would not be who i am without Your control and guidance.

As i have told You, i have gotten into the habit of holding my dress collar as i go to sleep, i have also started to recite (to myself) Your Mantra and kiss the chain twice (as if i am kissing Your feet) in Your slave’s mind it brings him closer to his Master. i thought that it would be difficult to find a quiet place every day to kneel and recite Your mantra out loud but it is surprising how easy it is, by reciting Your mantra gives Your slave a good feeling.

i have not engaged in any “vanilla” sex and have found that when i get the urge to do so, i think of You and realise that no other man is worth the effort not when i have my Master, the only man that i need to serve and please.

Knowing i have You my Master in my life helps me get through the tough times, all i need to do is feel my dress collar and i know that You are there.

You seem to give me so much, thank You

Have a great Christmas and New Year, thank You for being my Master, my Owner and my Friend.

Saline Fun With 13

IMG_2183Saline injection has been something on my radar for a while now. It’s one of those unusual practices in the kink world that isn’t common and while it wasn’t a ‘must do’ kink for me it’s certainly something that planted a seed in my mind.

So when 13’s birthday came up I planned a saline injection session just for him. Under the watchful eyes of an experience saline practitioner (among other things) we took his balls for a spin. However firstly we made time to spread him eagle between my dungeon posts, give him some birthday gut punching and nipple torture.

The saline was an interesting experience and I’m almost keen to try it on myself. The saline stays in your system, fairly localized, for over 24hrs. 13 had an important appointment on the Monday so was a little worried about being stuck with elephant balls – so we put half a bag in at 500ml. Not too long after starting and with little effort his balls were an impressive size and after removing the needles and tape he enjoyed wobbling them around.

He told me later that day that he had an amazing wank.

How To Approach A Pro Dom (And Booking Your First Session)

image6Pro Dom’s talk among each other, and one of the main gripes we have is the way people approach us. Please remember this is our passion and job. We are not 24/7 Fetish Fantasy machines that only exist to fulfill your desires – and while we do what we can to help we expect people to remember you want what we have and not the other way around.

These are written from my personal experiences as a Professional Sir who works with men, but I can tell you many of the Female Pro Dom’s on Fetlife echo my thoughts. These ladies however encounter these in far greater numbers that I ever do.

  1. Make sure you approach a Pro Dom with the same level of respect as you would ringing to apply for a job interview. If you are emailing or texting (remember not everyone will answer text messages) then be polite and to the point. Rambling, rude and disrespectful messages are the #1 bugbear of every Pro Dom I know.
  2. We love it if the person knows what they are looking for, however most people have no idea. Talk to the Pro Dom and try and give them an idea – HOWEVER we get numerous calls or messages from people who want you to spell out just what you are going to do to them. These people are never going to book a session and just want wank material. If the Pro Dom even gets a whiff of this expect to have your conversation cut very short.
  3. As with above let the Pro Dom know your level of experience – we like to hear it so we can plan.
  4. We don’t like pushy. Pushy lets us know you are not someone we want to have in our space. I recently had someone who got angry because I wasn’t answering his calls when he rang to see if he could book a session a few hours later – even though he knew I specifically ask for 24 hours notice. Our relationship ended very quickly. Please refer to point 1.
  5. We don’t want to see photos unless we have specifically asked for them. Unsolicited photos let us know you are probably never going to use our services and are just looking for wank material. So please don’t send dick photos, photos of your ass or photos of you in lingerie unless we ask.
  6. If we ask questions it’s because we want to know more. We get prank callers and while they are usually easy to sift through, sometimes it’s not that easy. We also get people who book a session and don’t show. The Pro Dom will want a contact phone number – and many won’t answer a blocked number to being with. If you are concerned about your privacy then let the Pro Dom know that you can’t take phone calls or won’t between certain hours, give a reason. We encounter this regularly and can happily work in with it.
  7. If you are calling or contacting a Pro Dom I’d suggest you have some idea you are expected to pay for the service. The second biggest bugbear we face is people who want to quibble over the price or even expect it for free.

    A session with a Pro Dom should be like treating yourself to a fine dinner at an expensive restaurant – not McDonalds. I can’t stress this enough – and you wouldn’t do it to your Doctor, Mechanic or Dentist. Again see point 1.

Overall we expect a level of respect and common courtesy. I know myself I don’t expect to be treated like a god, demi or otherwise. If you come in acting like an ass you will be ignored very quickly.

The Gift of Gloves

Wgloveshile attending IML in America earlier this year I lost one of my vintage motorcycle gauntlet gloves somewhere while walking around the markets. I was suitable disappointed to be left with one, and even after lots of asking around and searching the missing glove never surfaced.

Fast forward almost half a year and my boy in training presented me with a new pair in a wonderful gift. He had found a pair on Ebay in America that were in very bad condition and has lovingly restored them with some bootblacking into an amazing pair of gloves.

They are wonderfully snug and have a vintage leather smell to them still, mixed with the smell of the new conditioner and dye. I’m extremely honoured and proud to have them to wear. Thank you 13.


And So It Begins

Hopefully I’ll be posting my ranting and small wisdom’s here. God know’s I have a lot to say about most things, so this might provide me my soapbox.

Stay tuned for more great entertainment…

Brother H